Help me out

Have you ever thought about what it would be like to not miss the constant bickering, the back and forth , the hair pulling irritation from the one that tells you "I love you"? But in the same sense you look around and you realize how difficult it is to find someone who is nice, compassionate, caring, genuine, and compatible. The last thing you want is a dead end relationship...again. However, being that it is our nature, we desire romance, companionship, and intimacy (with the exception of those freaks out there)....Why is it that "some" (few) people can find true love and happiness..and "some" (many) cant....what's wrong? are they just the lucky ones? is there a trick? or are there a lack of "happy seekers"? are people afraid of commitment? Or do we tend to focus on too many warning signs from the relationship that one is doing wrong that it almost becomes paranoia and we ruin it?

Honestly , I believe that when that feeling comes over you,it is perception ..no, more like a sixth sense..It may not be that something physically is going on, it may very well be that the feeling is deeper than that. So instead of reacting in a manner that could be detrimental to each others feelings like accusing or putting the other down. You look at potential situations. You say...ok if this is how it is currently... I have little ground for any trust to stand on. No matter what the issue is if you don't have a foundation, how can you honestly say to yourself- that's ok, things wont be like that because it just feels right? Who are you kidding...Who am I kidding?

When you have expressed your concern...and you get nothing as to action for a response and not able to reason with the person I think this might be the time to realize that this relationship is not right for you. Isn't true love the kind of thing that puts the object of our love first in all things? If that is true, you should be able to see some willingness to understand and work with you on it if they truly love you. If not...do you realize where you stand?
Are you supposed to make adjustments so it doesn't seem that bad or do you go about your day on YOUR schedule and let things fall as they are? all the while knowing you will be single, again, and have to do it all over.... again.